Trying hard not to remember her or him-here is solution

I assume you too have face this challenge to not to remember her or him after some fight but its seem impossible to do. As much we want to forget she/he keep coming in our imagination and we struggle with ourselves to not bring her/his face in memory.
So, I have a solution to this problem. Please note this is not for everyone and may not be applied in all situations. I used to follow this trick. Also this is not if you want to forget for ever but you may try it.
Here is the trick. Whenever you had fight then you show to her or him that you are angry and will not talk to her but not think same internally. Alwyas think that you still love her, you will never forget her and you will talk to her again after sometime. I mean never get yourself serious about breaking relationship for ever.
You will see the magic- how easy is it to live for few days without talking.
Let me know your experience on it.

After twelve years in love -love and career

Yes. It has been 12+ years of our relationship. Today i want to share a small but very important thing which i have realized over the time.
Love is great and very important for a happy life but it should not affect your professional life or career. When both are not balanced properly then they spoil each other so there may not be love or a careeer ahead.
Only love can not give you happiness if you are hungry and have no money for food or if you or your love one fall sick and have no money to visit a good doctor.
Generally girls complain that for boys, work is only thing in their life and thats the starting point which ends in a bad relationship . However i do not say this is the only reason ....
Both boy and girls should under stand that love and career are equally important for their happy future and you can not just spend whole day dreaming about love. 
Whoever will follow   a practical approach wil be successful in love and live.
All the best.

Some important discussion about my true love

Sir i love a girl from my childhood. She was my classmate. But i did not know that she loved me or not. So i was never express my feeling. Around November 2011 I got news that in February 2012 she will get marriage. I was shocked. I want to tell her that here is a human who loves you very much. So in last week of December 2011 I have told her everything what was in my heart.
She-if u loved me than why u never express it.
Me-because I do not want to loss you as my friend.
She-ok. Now tell me what do you want?
Me-nothing.
She (shocked)-nothing!! You do not want to friendship?
(I thought that she is my first love. I should not loss her)
Me-if you agree then I want to do it.